3 days ago a young man named, Jefferson Bethke, published a video to youtube. As of this very moment, the video has 9,660,687 hits. In 3 days this young man's poem has passed through the millions of peoples ears! Its stuff like this that makes me love living in the time that I do. With technology allowing the little guys to get there message across to millions, it just inspires me so much.
So as most things that hit a mass of people in Christianity, there is controversy with the video (I'll refrain from rolling my eyes for now.)
I personally watched this video the day that the video hit the internet because kids from my church in Nashville were posting it. I was starting to see a couple links for it, so I watched it. I hate to say it, but I was surprised to find how much I enjoyed the video. It's kind of lame when you seem to always be skeptical of trending religious media, but still I found I really enjoyed this video.
One of the selling factors for me was how genuine the kid and his message came across. One of my biggest hesitance with people and "Christianity" is I find a lot of people completely, disingenuous. That is a very harsh term I realize, but growing up taking part in the production side of my church, you see things, you see how the business works, and part of you gets jaded. One of the hardest things I took away from my amazing experience with my hometown church, was having to see the "unreal." The forced messages, and the fake tears to drive a point home, to mention a few. I could write a whole other blog about how in my life, that's not how I want to make an impact, but this is not the place today.
This kid just seems so sincere to me.
This morning I woke up to a text from my lovely cousin Whitney. In her text she had sent me a link that was rebuttal to this now 9 million+ viewed video, you can read the rebuttal here: http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/kevindeyoung/2012/01/13/does-jesus-hate-religion-kinda-sorta-not-really . The rebuttal was posted by a well known pastor, Kevin DeYoung. Again, I stand pretty surprised by the content. The article is actually very well executed and very respectful. I am so used to reading replies that take the stance of "You're wrong," and not "I disagree." Mr. DeYoung's reply was very respectful and very much from the stand point of, "I disagree."

As I was reading the post though, I couldn't help but just dive into the thoughts of how, as Christians, we will argue until we are red in the face over spiritual issues. Some of us will stop community with some people because of disagreements. And some have gotten into physical disputes, even wars, over disagreements in Spirituality (I use spirituality today because of the over use of the word "religion" in the video above and the argument of the true nature of the word in DeYoung' s rebuttal.) I am not saying this from a holier-than-thou stand point, but I find it so trivial. Its wonderful to be passionate about your faith and to know your theology, but there are some issues that we really will not be able to figure out until we're dead, including the big question, does even God exist?
As I laid in bed processing the video and the reply, I couldn't help but think about how we all really are NOT on equal planes in our journeys with God. The more and more I read, it seems that there is this stance, that Christians want to believe, about how we can all meet in the middle, we all can all be in "understanding with each other." I truly believe this is one of the most DANGEROUS things found in Christianity. There are pastors who preach on how if we are truly seeking God and reading His Word correctly (as in not reading in between the lines) then we will all be in perfect unity and understanding with each other as Christians. To bring it to the issues I discussed today, there's a view that the rebuttal writer, DeYoung and the poet, Bethke, if both are right with God will see eye to eye on their issues. Laying in bed this morning, I could not buy into that belief.
Laying in bed, I found there were three arguments that I had formed in my head about how we all are different as Christians and will probably NEVER meet in the middle on every issue.
Being a man who lives, breathes, and functions with music every day, my brain immediately went to music.

Argument I:
Jesus and Pearl Jam
In my musical development, I found myself in the early 2000's looking back towards 90's music. My dad introduced me to bands like, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Smashing Pumpkins and other greats in the grunge and alternative era of the 90's. But one band I could never get into was Pearl Jam. As I've written about many times on this blog, I'm not their biggest fan. But I do need to mention here, lots of times I use Pearl Jam just to have a punch line, or to have nemesis in my writing. My blood does not run hot and thick every time I hear them, Eddie Vedder just gets under my skin.
But as I was thinking about about this whole "unity in faith" stance, I couldn't help but be reminded about my dislike for Pearl Jam. Eddie Vedder and company, to me, have never been anything more than a band that barely enunciated their whatever lyrics. But the thing that is so amazing about music, is there is clearly thousands of people in this world who think completely differently. There are people who Vedder really did speak into their lives. I would bet there are people out there who found Pearl Jam and the band changed their lives. Either it lead them to pick up a guitar and start writing music, or the music found them at a hard time and they used it to push through their depression and dark times.
We can't always describe why we actually like some music. Some music we are just naturally drawn to. I can't tell you why, but I know that I am drawn to the music like that of Jimmy Eat World. I connect with it, more than most other music and I can't explain it any other way than, it's a natural thing. I can be naturally drawn to something musically.
With that being said, I love the diversity in music.
I love that really there can't be something in music that is "universally bad."
Because what I think is pompous arrogant rock (Radiohead), is another man's favorite band and they are naturally drawn to it..
So bringing this back to the topic at hand, I find it fascinating that in music we can be naturally drawn to completely different feels or stances, but in Christianity, we think its suppose to be a "universal agreement."

Argument II:
Dad's Set The Pace
3 or 4 months ago, Nathan and I desperately were trying to find a roommate to help pay the rent and utilities on our house in Orlando. By the grace of God, a man by the name of Andrew Capo contacted us interested renting with us. So after a Del Taco talk with him, I was convinced this was our guy. Over the past few months I have really started to get to know and love Mr. Capo. Andrew is a solid dude, and I respect him greatly.
One of my favorite things about Andrew is our discussions. Nathan, Andrew, and I love to just talk in the living room. Doesn't matter if its about Temple Run, Movies, Girls, or God. We do a great deal of talking. Through these conversations I have found that Andrew and I, probably don't see eye to eye on all issues, but were totally cool with that. That does not affect our friendship detrimentally. But one of the most fascinating things I have found in that difference of opinion, is the difference in "moral compasses."
Out of respect for my roommate I won't dive into topics that we don't see eye to eye on, because I respect him for his opinion. But one issue I think that he would be comfortable about me talking on lightly is the topic of alcohol. Pretty early on in Andrews stay with us, I found out that Andrew has taken on what the cool kids call a "Straight Edge" lifestyle. I on the other hand, do not. I respect alcohol because of the way I saw it used in my household growing up. Casual drinking was normal in my house, so it never scared me, it was actually something I looked forward to, as in a part of manhood. I couldn't wait to get older to drink one, maybe 2 beers with my dad. But in Andrews case that wasn't the same issue. In his household alcohol tore family members apart, unlike my view of bringing people together in unity (when used responsibly of course.) So that lead me to this realization.
Some of our morals are not natural, or embedded in us. Some of our morals are created by our parents and our experiences. As mentioned, the way our families used alcohol was totally different, creating two different moral compasses in our lives.
So with that being stated, I don't know how as Christian's we will all see eye to eye if we are not all just operating under embedded morals.

Argument III:
Open to Interpretation
One of the hardest lines to walk as a Christian is, following the guidelines of The Bible. If the Bible were as blatant as the 10 Commandments we probably wouldn't have that many issues. But as The Bible reads today, it is very hard to sometimes distinguish what parts are relevant to every day life now, and what parts are irrelevant. For example, most of us write off most of the book of Leviticus because a) a great portion is about the sacrificial process which we do not have to conduct anymore because of Jesus Christ, b) because a large portion of it is safety guidelines for back in that day that really is not relevant today and c) because we all really like shrimp (Well except for the guys at http://Godhatesshrimp.com). But with all that said and jokes aside, it is probably the biggest thing that splits us Christians.
Look at the amazing division between churches today. Baptists, Free Will Baptists, Calvinists, Protestants, Lutherans, Catholics, Messianic Jews, Pentecostal, and Non Denomenational are really just a few of the many different denominations we have in Christianity. And what separates all of these? Most of the time its the interpretation of Scripture. Those little differences, beliefs in baptisms, free will, and age of accountability separate huge groups of people.
So this belief that one group has it right. This belief that the closer we are to God the more His people will be in unity. I completely disagree with.
Conclusion:
Th-Th-Th-That's all folks!
By looking at these 3 things: The existence of being naturally driven to something musical or spiritual, the existence of our moral compasses not being innate but actually affected by our lives and parents, and the open to interpretation ways of the Bible, I find it completely impossible to say that one day, we as Christians will NOT stand divided. There is unity in the love for Christ but I believe that will be the only thing we will ever all agree on.
You can see above with this video and rebuttal, that there are two different views on the topic, and they have actually differed with each other in a respectful manner (they've actually emailed each other as seen at the top of DeYoung's article, Bethke has since apologized for his view for some reason.)
The way these two men handled themselves in this matter, I really respect.
I loved that there were two differing opinions on how they saw a matter, but out of love and respect, they discussed it.
My message is this:
With all of the differences we are going to face as Christians, I really do hope that we can conduct ourselves with respect and love for each others opinions. I know the old Fire and Brimstone preachers will tell you that Political Correctness and Christianity do not go hand in hand, and I respectfully disagree. Loving people does not mean agreeing with them. If you want to make an impact with people, don't push on them that they are "wrong." Listen to them and if you disagree, respectfully tell them that. Don't make banner's and protests or tell them "You're Wrong", I don't believe that is Christ like at all.
And this whole "unity in Christianity" thing, its a myth. Realize we are going to have differences even in our faith. Wether its on matters such as baptism, hell, or political parties, there will always be separations in large groups of people. I can only hope and pray that we all conduct ourselves properly.
So control what you can, yourself, and let's take an example from DeYoung and Bethke, and remember to always be respectful in our differences in opinion.
And realize, this whole Christianity thing, its a lot bigger than any of us will be ever to comprehend, so why waste our time fighting and getting red in the face about that which we don't truly understand.
I guess we will all found out the answers to all of our differences when we die.
I think though,
God's gonna laugh at us and say we wasted so much time on the trivial.

But until I finally croak, I'm waiting in anticipation (and completely prepared to laugh along.)
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